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How I Thought Raising A Child With Autism Would Be

The scariest part was never about what he would or wouldn’t do.

It’s a mixture of bad advice growing up and a few too many times where I felt that I was putting other people out with my presence.

Time has made many interactions I once would have thought impossible possible

Don’t let anyone heap guilt on you for the sake of their own ego.

You don’t need to have someone playing social volleyball with you to have them in your life

The hour would end, the door would close, and we would all be alone together again.

As the parent to a child with Autism, it pulls me back to the early days of his life…

The thing is, I get it. I get why he wants to run around in the middle of the night…

My parenthood is neither painful nor does it require relief. When I say that I accept my son as he is, I’m not trying to fool myself and others.

It’s not about speech, spectrums, or understanding. It’s about who we are as people.